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Q&A Thursday: How & Why Your “Story” Affects Your Vibe – Brent Smith

Question: Brent, how does “story” affect your vibe?  And, WHY does “story” affect your vibe and the energy you give off when you’re out in the world?

Watch the video for my answer!



How To Make TODAY The Best Day of Your Life! – Brent Smith

When you think about having the best day of your life you are probably thinking about it in terms of getting something.  But, there’s another way to think about it that will actually almost guarantee that you will have the best day ever and I bet it has never even occurred to you.  Check out this video to see what I mean.


How To Make Sure Your “Story” Works – Brent Smith

As another year is coming to an end and a BRAND NEW year is about to start it’s very important that you get your “story” straight and make sure it’s REALLY working for you. Check out this video where I give you a checklist of things to make sure you’re doing to have the most success possible!  If you want some help with your story then I will be glad to check it out, re-write it and even record an audio of it for you.  You can check that service out here: 

How To REALLY Change The Things You Don’t Like – Brent Smith

When you want to make changes in your life or wish that things were different in the world it’s easy to fall into a pattern of whining, complaining, anger and victimhood.   STOP!  There’s something you can start doing RIGHT NOW and that will cause change to happen much faster for you.  Check out this NEW video I made that explains the simple and easy process.


How To Stop Making Excuses – Brent Smith

When you’re not doing and having what you want in your life you probably have a long list of excuses for why you’re not doing it and not having it.  It doesn’t have to be that way!  There’s something you can do about it RIGHT NOW!  Check out this NEW video I made that reveals the secret to always doing and having what you really want in your life.

How To Start Every Day Successfully – Brent Smith

Ever had one of those days where you get up and everything just starts going wrong and continues that way for the rest of the day?  Well, there’s something you can do to make that a rare occurrence… Check out this NEW video I made to see what I mean.

Why “Feeling Stuck” Is An Opportunity In Disguise – Brent Smith

When you’re “feeling stuck” it’s easy to fall into a negative state that only makes it worse and keeps you stuck for much longer
then you need to be. UNLESS…

You use “feeling stuck” as an opportunity…

Are You An Instigator? – Brent Smith

I know I am. Instigators sometimes get a very bad rap. I can remember getting into lots of trouble in school for being one. In fact I got into lots of trouble outside of school for being one as well!

The truth is we need instigators because instigators shine a light in the dark places that create a disturbance in the status-quo, and it’s those very disturbances that can sometimes be the catalyst for social change and innovation. So, we should be embracing instigators. Instigators don’t make you do anything, they just provide the opportunity for you to think different, act different, and change your priorities. We should be encouraging people to be instigators and you should be an instigator because instigators can and often do change the world!


Women Less Likely to Have Orgasms in Casual Sex

Interesting research studies in the New York Times Article on Women Less Likely to Have Orgasms in Casual Sex.

Women are less likely to have orgasms during uncommitted sexual encounters than in serious relationships.

Natasha Gadinsky, 23, says she doesn’t have any regrets from her years in college. But the time she hooked up with a guy at Brown University does come close.

Fashion Tips for Men for Winter 2013 (Guest Post Nicolas from Kinowear)


Going about wearing the right clothes in the right way can feel like a bit of a minefield, and mark my words, it’s easy to make mistakes if you don’t know what you’re doing. But don’t worry, it all boils down to one formula: choosing your clothes well + putting them together properly. The Kinowear Crash Course was developed to help guys like you with free, short snippets of advice about how to dress well without breaking the bank or spending hours in front of the mirror every day.