Change your life and take action now! Just a little reminder on how important taking action is, in your daily life. When you hold back, delay, put off, procrastinate for whatever reason (excuse) you’re keeping yourself where you are. I know that a lot of times it’s because you have fear about whatever it is that you’re putting off, but I guarantee that the result of pushing through that fear pales in comparison to living what you think is a “safe” life inside your comfort zone and then finally regretting that you never stepped up to the plate and lived what’s possible for you…and usually that regret gets stronger and stronger as you get older. SO, make the choice to change your life and TAKE ACTION right now and you’ll have no regrets.
How to have great sex? So she’s at your place, seems interested and things are progressing (you’re kissing ETC.). The problem is that you might be inexperienced and not sure what to do next.
In your head you’re thinking, I’m not a stud in bed, I’m going to blow this.’
Not necessarily. Believe it or not, your inexperience is a blessing in disguise and can lead to you being the best she’s ever had. Most guys who think they’re studs in bed, think they know it all and they get busy performing; whether the girl likes what they’re doing or not. Then, afterwards, they think everything’s fine. Meanwhile, she’s telling her friends that it was just okay and that she really wasn’t satisfied.
How to have great sex? What’s the secret?
Be interested in her needs by whispering the following question into her ear:
‘What do you like?’
She rarely hears this and will become very excited. If you don’t understand her answer, don’t get nervous.
I know, I know…SIMPLE. Less work, more return; and now she wants more so she’ll be pursuing you! The amazing thing is actually listened to her and didn’t guess what she wanted, you actually asked. That also sends a clear signal you know how to communicate. And that’s sexy and how to have great sex!!!
Try it and let us know what happens!
Here is a show we did on Vokle with Cory Skyy, a dating expert, on our BSL Insider Live Show. This is a 6 minute dating advice segment on how to meet women, approach women, and use this method to meet women. You can check out Cory here and learn more about his products and services.
Happy Champagne Sunday and make this a great week. We wanted to share an area where we see people constantly sabotaging their happiness and success in dating and relationships with the opposite sex. As dating and relationship coaches (as well as life coaches), one of the biggest hindrances we see to your improvement in the area of “Success in Dating and Relationships” has to do with your thoughts. Some of you think way too much. You sometimes call it “being in your head”. Your head is filled with negative thoughts and emotions and it feels like your mind is racing and you can’t shut it off.
Because when a thought arrives you don’t ignore it. Instead you decide to latch onto it and start obsessing over it. Your thoughts never appear fully formed. They start out much simpler. You’ll notice that thoughts don’t just go on and on. There are pauses between them. Most of you currently fill these pauses with more thoughts as fast as you can. The same way you try and fill the awkward silence in the conversations you have with women and men. What should you do? Simple. Practice “not thinking.” You can actually turn your unproductive emotions and negative thoughts off like a light switch. If everybody learned this, it would really change things in the world. It’s very powerful in all aspects of your life. How? Start paying attention to your thought process like you’re an outsider just observing. Be careful not to get caught up in the ACTUAL thoughts. Look at the natural pauses between your thoughts and practice not generating more and more of them. Now see if you can do that for longer and longer periods of time. It’s not going to happen over night but with practice you should see steady improvement.
What do you think? Try it and let us know what happens!
BSL Insider Exclusive: Anna Runyan from classycareergirl.com joins us on the show today to talk about career advice on how to create your dream job (whether working for a company or starting your own business).
We spend a lot of our time at a job we don’t like. We feel stuck with nowhere to go. A lot of times we feel like we are merely wasting away because we spend so much of our time doing something we hate. After spending years at a job we hate, we change and revise our résumé constantly to submit it online with little to no luck – usually settling for something just to get us out of our current situation but creating a whole new set of problems and issues we never expected to experience – and even worse, if we did expect them.
We start to feel depressed because we no longer believe we are able to find a job, especially in this economy. We feel as though we will be stuck in this endless cycle of unhappy career searches and changes for the rest of our lives – and then that creates even more depression. We wait and wither away as we merely survive as oppose to thrive. Your career, however, does not have to be like this, nor do you need to suffer any longer.
Today’s show introduces you to a career coach – someone who has been stuck before and overcame her challenges to help thousands of people from all over the world to start thriving in their lives and their careers. Originally starting out as a blogger, Anna Runyan figured out how to become unstuck in her career challenges, and pursued her goals and mission to becoming a career coach. As a consultant at a leading strategy and technology consulting firm in San Diego, California, Anna knows exactly what it takes to acquire the career you’ve always wanted, and how you too can follow her tips to start the career of your dreams. Feel free to hit the play button below to hear about Anna’s journey and how you too can apply her tips and techniques to start thriving in your career.
OUR BSL INSIDER:
Anna Runyan used to hate her job. Upon getting unstuck from her own career five years ago, she has dedicated her life’s work to helping tons of professional women to finding a meaningful and purposeful career. After graduating with her MBA, Anna began working as an Adjunct Professor at her company, Booz Allen Hamilton, where she taught and coached employees on how to find career success by identifying their interests, motivation, and skills. From here, Anna realized that her own passion and interests revolved around helping people by helping them find the career that will make them happy. Anna now helps women transition into careers they love in only a few months, and uses her seven years of experience to continue to help others each and every day of her life.
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:
• How to discover your goals and mission
• The best way to find a new job that has an 80% higher success rate than what most people are doing – singling you out from the crowd
• Tips on what to do before applying to a new job to increase your chances of finding a career you love
• How to network successfully
• How to contact someone on your career path at the top of their game so they can help you
• How to start a business from scratch
• The biggest mistakes people make today with their careers and how you can avoid them
• How to overcome obstacles and hurtles in your career
• How to discover your entire career path
• How, if you’re an introvert, you can have great success in searching for a career
• And so much more…
Anna Runyan has been there. She knows what it feels like to be stuck in a career that you hate, and even being in over $80,000 worth of debt. She overcame all of her obstacles, found a career she loved, and now she has dedicated her life to helping others do the same.
WHERE YOU CAN FIND ANNA:
You can find Anna on Twitter, as well as Facebook. You can also find out more about her at classycareergirl.com, and she has a bunch of free job search resources at freecareertoolkit.com. If you would like to know about how to receive career coaching from Anna, you can find out more information over at getunstuck.classycareergirl.com.
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So many people struggle in their careers. They’re stuck without direction on what to do with it and where to go next. Leave a comment below about your obstacles and hurtles in your career, and what steps you can take next to help overcome these problems. Your input could start a chain reaction to helping tons of other people in need.
PS: Learn how to attract money in your life by creating new career opportunities, starting your own business, taking your business to the next level or ways to ask your current boss for more money today! We show you innovative and breakthrough ways to be a leader and advance your business and career.
“How to make a girl like you,” is the wrong question in so many ways. You know when someone approaches you and you can tell they want something? They’re sort of pushy, needy, desperate and really overselling themselves. They compliment you and you can tell where every story is leading. It’s all a big trick and/or technique to get you to help them. You “feel” them trying to invade your personal space like a used car salesman. Secondly, stop trying to make someone do anything. That’s the wrong way entirely. Don’t use tricks or techniques with women. Be yourself. We will show you how.
It’s kind of creepy isn’t it?
It makes you NOT want to help them doesn’t it?
This is how women view YOU when you approach them. They view you as the creepy pursuer. Read below for more and watch a video on drastically improving your interactions with women, and check out our new dating products.
How to find the most beautiful women? Another question from the dating and relationship advice mailbag on women, dating and finding the perfect woman for dating, relationships and/or marriage:
Hey Brent, I’m a good looking, social, successful guy and I have a lot of hot, thin, smart women I’m currently seeing; but I’m looking for the most beautiful women and the perfect woman on top of that…you know…hotter, thinner, smarter…my standards are pretty high. Every time I think I’ve found the right woman, I find something that I don’t like about her and then the search continues (although I still keep the others around to date). Am I too picky in my dating? Does this perfect woman exist? And if so, how do I find the perfect woman?
“My Answer” below