Read reviews from people whot have participated in phone coaching, online coaching weekends, and live group coaching weekends, and purchased products or e-learning courses. Here are reviews of “Brent Smith Lifestyle” from the thousands of reviews that have come in on how BSL has changed their lives in areas such as:
- Dating (being irresistible to women and having women pursue them)
- Having a girlfriend who is devoted
- Creating mind blowing relationships
- Removing anxiety and fear of their past
- Being fearless
- Making more money and finding the career of their dreams
- Creating the lifestyle of a rockstar and mayor of their city
- Getting power and control back, and more.
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Review #1: Just wanted to share my thoughts on the coaching weekend that I just returned from. I have been following the BSL methodology for about 10 months now. Throughout that time I have grown immensely, hooked up with a lot of women with minimal effort, and increased my social circle through their philosophy of giving-to-give. I am believer. What I learned in Dallas was that I was still limiting myself immensely.
The minute you touch down, you are sucked into their world, which is a world of massive social abundance. They design the weekend so that you are put into various environments where you can see this abundance and the limitless possibilities that they present. These are not the normal places that guys think of like bars and clubs, where every panting dick in the place is chasing the same tail. These are places where the women far out number the men and the women are swarming like horny bees. We were the party, and people were sucked into our world. We were the flame and not the moth. We were the fun, the social center, and we were BEING IT. People wanted to be around us. He guides you along the way adding nuggets of wisdom on what he did to create these situations and how to flow How to be the gracious host, manage your time for maximum effectiveness in the face of all this abundance, and how to break into circles with people who make things happen in your city. Beautiful women were everywhere for you to practice with and restaurant owners were coming up to us and introducing themselves.
Brent is truly the master of indifference. Spending a minute of time with him you are instantly sucked into his vibe. You quickly realize that you are playing small, you are in the minor leagues. His reality is so strong that his banter gets in your head like a virus. You will turn into a filthy banterer real quick, riffing against each other like musicians, and really pushing the edges of what is possible. He teaches you how to flow, never chasing nor pursuing, simply being in the moment. Even when we were approaching we were not chasing. That is the vibe. And people absolutely love it. We had must have interactions with well over 100 women, none where they flipped some sort of attitude. We were flipping the script (them chasing us) on them in every interaction and saying the most filthy things. They were devouring anything we fed them like chocolate and couldn’t wipe the smiles off their faces, sometimes while their boyfriends looked on. Having them take our numbers was child’s play. I wasn’t even bothering entering a girls name when the texted me because the next number to come was inevitable We would walk away sometimes have the girl come back and say hello and not even know who they were. True abundance. Anything you want to work on he will show you how to do.
It was a positive experience for me. You realize what next level is and what is possible. Thinking about it today I wished I had multiple friends on the weekend with me. A bunch of guys living this philosophy and being it would be truly unstoppable. You could take over a city. Don’t get me wrong, one person doing it is still just as powerful. As of today I have a party this Saturday where 60 -70 people are coming. Way more women then men. Through the social contacts I have developed I am getting food, alcohol, desserts, a dj, and a stripper pole for free or for a deep discount. I am the center of all of this. I am the flame. It works guys. Take some action and live an extraordinary life on the next level.” — Ian, California
Review #2: “Finally back home from an unreal weekend. Had fun, made some new friends and learned a lot. I highly suggest to sign up for a coaching weekend. They are the real deal. I also highly recommend getting phone coaching. It’s changing my life and motivating me to create an extraordinary life quickly.” — Eric, Toronto
Review #3: “My coaching weekend with Brent was awesome with so many next level realizations, if you haven’t done a coaching weekend you’ll want to get in on it ASAP, it’s the quickest way to move to the next level and Rohit recommends going to at least 2 to get to really get the filth juices flowing.” — Brody, California
Review #4: “I’ve had a few days to reflect on (and recover from) the coaching weekend and I want to share it with everybody. The things I learned were that people are uncomfortable socially by nature and that they greatly appreciate when someone makes the effort to reach out to them in a social setting. They respond in kind and it’s amazing how they are drawn to you. I learned that the things that they teach in reaching out socially are simple to do and work if you do the inner work and the outer work. The breakthrough I had was just trying one thing that they teach and when I saw how well it worked then trying the next thing and seeing the same results. I certainly had the limiting belief that people don’t want to be interacted with socially by a stranger unless a third party known by both makes an introduction and thereby establishes a comfort zone. I found that is absolutely not true. We all are social creatures and want and need connection with other people. If you do that for everyone you will be surprised at the hunger for it. — Chris, Texas
“To all of you guys: I will strongly recommend you to attend the BSL online seminar tomorrow. In March 2013 I attended another BSL online seminar. It was fantastic! My life changed radically. Because of that seminar I was able to get to know my true self – which have been hidden far away from my daily life since I was a little child, always struggling with other peoples issues. I’m convinced to the depth of my heart: they really want to help you, and they compliment each other in a way that makes you feel understood and been taking care of in best possible ways. Take a leap of faith and invest in your own future, certainly to the best of all your relationships. If you want to take your life to the next level, do what you have to do, and do it now.” — Brody, California
“Amazing, this coaching really help me push on a higher levels. Group coaching definitely help me to clarify many things. I can feel the transformation in me and its not over. I am the sexy man. Thanks guys again.” — Pol, Europe
“So when I first signed up for the weekend I didn’t really know what to expect. The new term ‘king maker’ was used and I knew this was something I had to do. Luckily the weekend was available for me, I just had to cancel a few things. We were given an assignment for Friday evening with 3 specific yet simple tasks. Each task was a little more challenging than the previous. By challenging I mean more socially uncomfortable. Massive growth occurs outside your comfort zone right? Also, the coaches said you will only get out of this what you put in. The tasks gave me a purpose and a mission. I wasn’t just hanging out waiting for something to happen I was making it all happen! At one point I found myself standing around and I remembered to keep moving, keep being the unofficial host etc.
Saturday all the guys reported back. I reported back on buying a beer for a stranger, saying cheers and walking away. When I did this simple task the guy said ‘hell yeah!’ and I just walked away like it was no big deal. Brent said these tasks get easier as you do them and that occurred for me Saturday evening. Saturday we were told Before you go out. Get in front of a mirror, pump yourself up!
New material was presented plus a deeper look into the power of giving, leading, falcon banter, and how to inspire.” — Pete, Colorado
“Wow … The online coaching weekend exceeded my expectations exponentially.
The participants were awesome guys. Their transparency led to many high level insights. I was really proud that the forum is full of such high caliber men…. KING MAKERS!
I enrolled in the coaching weekend because I make it a goal to model excellence whenever I can and they delivered. They were in rare form and I could not write fast enough. I took copious notes and will be sharing the salient points shortly.
- Forget the “How to” and techniques. Focus on who you are being. When you are wrapped up into the “how” and techniques you will always feel the need for another book, another class, another method. Have accountability and take action! The best feedback you can get is from you. Keep creating, -Be it. That will lend to the best customized feedback for you and your specific situation. Self correction.
- You are the evidence. Stop trying to convince people with words. Be it. Show people that the next level exists.
- Having long conversations does not lead to intimacy or success. Focus on multiple 2 min conversations where you are completely present. Then move on. We complicate things. You are actually more giving and successful having 10 2 min conversations than 1 20 min conversation.
- Realize what is your story and erase it. For example, my story was “it is easier to approach individuals than groups”, its not true…. its just my story. As long as I hold on to it, I wont be able to move forward. Give yourself permission to be GREAT, you don’t have to wait until you see someone else do it, be the leader. You don’t have to wait until you have 10,000 hours either. You will move to the next level so much faster.
- Change the reason why you do things. Stop trying to impress people in the Matrix. (Time for a confession: I had a list of questions that I wanted to pose thru out the weekend. 75% of them were covered without me having to ask and the other 25% were “Matrix type problems.” One sign that you have not embraced the concepts fully is that you are still stuck on Matrix type issues that mean nothing. For example, “what text should I send?” How do I get my girlfriend back?, “give me the steps for X). Everything should be simple, fun, and easy. Effort, compromise, control are all Matrix concepts.
THESE ARE NOTES FROM JUST ONE PAGE!”
Guys should go on a coaching weekend because they will provide you with opportunities to practice the things they teach in settings where they are right there to support you and give you feedback. You will not be alone. They are there as your support structure. You get great private time as students with the instructors in relaxed settings where anything and everything you want to talk about is discussed. I will go again because coaching weekends build on themselves and there is always much to be learned and practiced. Once you’ve had the time to let it soak in and work in your own settings, attending another coaching weekend will allow you to correct any bad habits developed and strengthen what you are doing right.
Many of you may think that the things you see and read about a BSL coaching weekend aren’t real. Everything about the Dallas coaching weekend is real. I was there. I saw it. Here are some thoughts on that. A coaching weekend isn’t going to make you another Brent once its over. None of us who attended had that thought and a coaching weekend is never done with any kind of promises like that. It’s taken Brent a quarter of a century – I say again a quarter of a century – to get where they’re at now. What a coaching weekend did for us and will do for you is make you better than you were and give you the tools and opportunities to practice and the knowledge to continue to improve. Sometimes, as with any learning process, things work well and not so well. Was every social interaction I attempted during the Dallas coaching weekend a success ? No. Sometimes I was blown off by both males and females. I found that those cases were small in number compared to people who responded positively. They did a great job through a lot of hard work setting up a number of different types of settings to practice the BSL tools. In some settings things went well for me and in others not so well. We went to a club on Friday night that things didn’t go so well for me. We went to a charity event Saturday night and things really took off for me.
Part of my problem, and I’ll bet many of you readers of this forum, is that it is all about going out and meeting women. That is what we judge ourselves by and if we don’t have any success from focusing on that then we are a failure and start down the spiral of low self esteem and get in the viscous circle of “I don’t want to go out because I am not good with girls/I go out and fail with girls so why go out”. You have to do the inner work. What is your end state ? Don’t make it meeting girls. Make it having fun and enjoying your life. This will create good habits socially. Do things that you enjoy in your spare time. It doesn’t matter what it is or if women are involved. Have a life you enjoy and then make going out socially a part of that and don’t worry about anything else. If you are having fun and enjoying your life then people will sense it and girls will be a byproduct. If your end state is just meeting girls then that is too limiting. Having fun and enjoying life throws off the limits and expands your possibilities. That is the biggest thing I saw when out with them. They weren’t spending money on girls and using PUA lines on girls. That never happened. They have fun and enjoy life. As a result people both men and women are drawn to them.
See if any of you relate to this. I enjoy reading. So if there is something I want to do I read about it. That was certainly the case with wanting to become better with women. Believe me guys, I was a dismal failure. I wanted to get better. So I signed up for every PUA newsletter there was and as many of you know there are a ton of them. And that’s all I did. Read about it.
And read about it. And read about it. Boy did I become a couch expert like so many of you who are reading. We can quote all the PUA terms and the pickup lines and the name of every character in The Game. Guys, take if from a guy who’s been there and has a long way to go. Stop wasting your time. Get on board the BSL train. All parts of life are interconnected. They all need equal attention. Strengthen them and they will strengthen each other. Health mentally and physically, relationships with family and friends, your work and your play, charity with your time and your money. Give to give in all those aspects of life and expect nothing in return.
The things that Brent and Jason teach are not hard and you can start out with small things and work your way up. The ah ha moment for me was when I started doing what Brent said by wishing everyone I saw a happy Friday. That wasn’t hard and you will be amazed as I was on the responses you get. Now I can’t wait for Fridays just to do that because I know the positive reactions I will get. You don’t need to be out long when you go out socially to get the benefit out of it. Not at all. I was always the first to leave the venue each night of the Dallas coaching weekend and the rest of the guys enjoyed themselves long afterwards. That was fine. I still got a lot out of it and you can as well by making use of the time you are there. Stop thinking that going out socially is always about going to a bar. Find groups that share your interests on meetup.com and attend. They are great and easy social opportunities. One of the biggest boosters that helped me was to take dance lessons. You are in the privacy of a one on one setting with your instructor so things are comfortable. Plus most dance studios have group classes as well where everyone is embarrassed and learning but are all in the same boat so its OK and fun and you get to practice your social outer game. Get the confidence of knowing how to dance and social settings are at a whole other level for you even if you don’t dance at them. Outside of the things that Brent and Jason teach, I can’t recommend dance lessons enough for inner game and outer game work. Get in the habit of going over how social activities went for you. Evaluate what worked and what didn’t. Use this forum for feedback and suggestions. Show you are trying and others will help. Use the improvement cycle of plan-do-evaluate-repeat. The bottom-line on inner game and outer game with me and I know it will be for many of you is tiny tweaks lead to big changes. You have to stop being the couch expert and get off the couch. I watched and read about the running of the bulls in Spain but that was nothing until I got off the coach and went over there and did it. I kicked myself for not getting off the couch sooner. You will be the same with a coaching weekend.” Marion — New York
“I can’t believe I didn’t notice this page until now. Oh well, ha-ha.
The coaching weekend was unbelievable. As they said, there was too much information to go over everything on here. Definitely next-level stuff. They delivered super next-level content, it was unbelievable. Thank you guys so much for putting this together. Truly grateful for it all.
Some truly next level stuff that I took away from the weekend:
- Change the reason why you do things. Everything should be done in the form of giving, and it shouldn’t be done in the form of a technique or trying to get something (where if you’re TRULY giving, trying to get something won’t even cross your mind).
- Find your purpose. This was a big one for me. As a creative writer, I feel like it is my purpose to help people escape their boring, uneventful lives by stepping into my worlds and fantasies of my writing (fiction). And if I write non-fiction, then that could help them step out of the matrix, see the big picture, and start living extraordinary lives themselves; inspiring others to do the same in the process.
- Changing your story to shape around your purpose. A lot of guys (including myself for a time) have a hard time jumping out of bed in the morning, shouting how much they love their lives, and saying their story. And if they do get around to saying it, its usually in a monotonous voice, so there is no motivation behind it at all. How in the world can you inspire others if you YOURSELF aren’t inspired??? Recreate your story so that it inspires you, and the best way to do this is to discover your purpose (whatever that may be, so long as its centered around giving, helping, and inspiring others), and create your story around that. Once you have a story that inspires you, finding the motivation to jump out of bed in the morning and saying it will be effortless.
- Write out a day in your new life. Had this great exercise that he went over with all of us about writing out (can be any length) a detailed story about what a day in your new life would look like. Everything from when you wake up to where you live. Your morning rituals to where you work, what you do in the afternoon/evening, etc. This was a super awesome exercise. But once you write it, you realize that you can wake up tomorrow and be exactly where you are in that new life. You start making changes in your life that shape around your story. Even something as simple to you writing in your story “I drink vanilla-flavored coffee with breakfast”. Then tomorrow morning when you go make regular coffee, you think to yourself “Why the hell am I drinking regular coffee?” And then the next time you go shopping, you buy vanilla flavored coffee. Small changes like this add up quickly – depending on how quickly you allow them to change.
I really stepped out of my comfort zone with just attending this weekend in itself, but I really got out of my comfort zone when we all had an assignment of hosting a charity event of our own. Doing this was super easy, and they walked all of us through the process, and laid it out in a way where we could all simply follow. Hosting a charity event is super easy, but it benefits so many people in so many ways. I decided not to do my charity event right away and decided to give it some time to promote it. I decided to help out a small charity organization here in my city that’s dedicated to helping women that just got finished dealing with cancer – where the organization sells them anything from clothing to wiggs, furniture, etc. And everything is priced low to help out those in need. Hosting charity events is super next-level, and an amazing way to give just to give.
After the weekend, overall I felt more and more in the moment, and was just “being it”. No more techniques, as they hardly cross my mind anymore. Now everything is about being it, being in the moment, helping, and inspiring others. Staying inside and trying to do your inner work isn’t helping anyone. You MUST do the outer work with it, or you won’t know if your inner work is working. AND if you stay in all the time, you’re being really selfish by not going out and helping and inspiring people. Think about it… You are the conduit to giving people what they’ve always wanted in life. They are looking to you for direction and purpose. Give them that. Help them.
Another note I wanted to add, I was hanging out with my friend the other night, and he told me that I should go to the bar with him and his girlfriend some time. I agreed thinking, “Awesome! I can meet, help, and inspire tons of people!” He then said told me that there probably wouldn’t be a lot of women out that I would be interested in, and he apologized for that but said I could drink with him and his girlfriend anyway. It was funny because the thought of going out to meet women, get laid/hook up didn’t even cross my mind. I was only concentrating on helping people – being it and in the moment. Which leads me to another point – women are a byproduct. They’re great, but you shouldn’t concentrate all of your energy on them because the aspect of getting laid and what-not is so small in comparison to living an extraordinary life. Living on this next level right now; living an extraordinary life is where it is at, because you will attract someone that isn’t screwed up, doesn’t have many of the problems that people do that make “finding their mate” their life goal, and someone that just lives outside the matrix. THAT is the type of woman that you want and should attract, but the only way you can do that is if you start living this extraordinary life RIGHT NOW by helping and inspiring people, and allowing it to happen; but not concentrating so much on it that you end up using it as a crutch.
I said a lot here, so I hope you guys get some insight from it. This coaching weekend was AMAZING! Again, guys, thank you so much for putting it together and helping everyone out who attended. I met some amazing people – high quality KINGS! I was super excited to do it, and I’m still excited because of how my life has made a complete switch from “get” to truly “give”. Super awesome. I’m excited every single day to live my life to the fullest! There is only RIGHT NOW! So make it happen! What are you waiting for?” — Brandon, Oregon